My Views on Love and Heart break!!!
We talk about love all the time, but rarely do we sit down and think about what it is, and how our behavior helps us get more or less of the kind of love we desire.
Being in ample relationships, I made my opinions on love. Right or wrong I cant comment..
Very recently, someone very close to me underwent a heart break. It was a difficult phase for her as well as for me to see her go through whatever she was undergoing…
My question to her was, or to everyone reading this blog is, is the person who is making you undergo a trauma, really worth your love? Answer stands to be a big “NO”, if we speak practically, but most of us just don’t do things practically. We become a baggage in that person’s life. The more he tries to get rid of you, the more one tries to cling to him. And being treated like a door mat.
Almost each one of us has been through a heart break or have broken someone’s heart sometime in the life, and can relate to what point I am trying to make..
Heartbreak is definitely one of the most painful experiences. But, who really wants a relationship to end, or who wants to experience unrequited love? It hurts even more when you did anything and everything you could, but in the end it just wasn’t enough. Unfortunately that’s how life is. Sometimes no matter how much we do, or how much love we give, sometimes it really just isn’t enough.
Heartbreak is inevitable and it’s reality. Love doesn’t always have that fairytale ending and things don’t always work out in the end. Sometimes it’s not meant to be, and sometimes that ending is extremely painful. Even if you can keep fighting and there’s so much more you’re willing to give and do, sometimes it just won’t ever be enough, and in the end it’s nothing but a lost cause. It hurts and it sucks, but it’s the truth. Heartbreak is the most painful when you can’t do anything about your circumstances.
So does this mean we shouldn’t give so much? Definitely not. When we fall in love, we never know how it’s going to end. Even though that possibility of heartbreak is there, there’s also that chance of your fairytale ending. Just because you’ve had your heartbroken by love, doesn’t mean that’s always how it’s going to be, which is why I think you should always give your all. Love never has guarantees, especially in real-time. It’s a gamble. You have to take things one step at a time to know where it’s going. You can’t plan ahead or anticipate the future. You just need to go with the flow.
I’ve always given my best when I fall in love, and even though it has lead me to more inevitable heartbreaks than it has happy endings, I don’t regret giving my all. In the end, I have no regrets with my actions. I don’t feel like I’ve fallen short. I gave my all, and sadly that wasn’t enough, but at least I put up a good fight.
In life and in love, with the things that truly matter to you, you should put up a fight. Don’t concede. Don’t go into something half-heartedly. Give your all. Be fearless. If in the end you end up hurt, then at least you got hurt trying.
Also, my learning from life has been, a person who really loves you will never go away from you. There may be a phase where the person walks off , but will definitely come back as sooner or later he or she would realize your worth and his folly..
Handle the heartbreak strongly, have a life and move on. Getting into a depression doesn’t really help. Not that it never happened with me, it did happen but I recovered and it made me much more stronger..
To each girl reading this, never compromise on your self respect girl!! We women usually have a strong sixth-sense, the first moment you feel something is not right in a relationship, Be alert!!! Second time it happens again , just walk off. Don’t wait till you are used, abused and broken…
Always remember , love is the most beautiful feeling of life after being a mother.. But,Love is beautiful only till it makes you feel beautiful… From the moment it starts harming you its not worth it…When love makes you weaker its the time to move on… Let love be your strength and an addition to your beauty.. Your tears value zillions, don’t waste on a person who actually was worthless…
Go fall in love …. be fearless… be strong and be true.. Know your worth!!!
(Author : Vagda Kanwar)
